To, Dt.:
xxxxxxx
The Station House
Officer
Police Station
………………………
New Delhi.
Sub: Complaint against Mr. Xxxx (Husband), Mob:………
S/o Sh. Xxxx.
Respected
Sir/Madam,
That
the complaint has been filed against the atrocities and cruelties committed
upon the aggrieved / complainant by her husband as named above.
That on/around Sept. 2005, parents of the complainant got to
know about boy Xxxx, Xxxx deep, and his family are interest in marrying the
complainant. That it was told to complainant and her family members that xxxx is
doing family business and earning handsomely. The above named persons represented
themselves as well cultured, religious and respect traditional values. It was
represented that Xxxx is a teetotaller, educated, soft spoken well-cultured,
well-behaved, down-to-earth and a man of good habits.
That on first meeting of complainant’s parents and her
family members with xxxx and his family members gave an impression that they
are broad minded and well to do persons, and that they are not concerned with
dowry and only wanted a simple girl from decent/ cultured/ respectable family.
Since it was a marriage proposal from some common relatives and the behaviour of
them was so pleasing that the complainant and her family came under the spell.
That the marriage of the complainant was solemnized with
xxxx on 13.10.2005 with great pomp and show as per Sikh rites and ceremonies,
which was attended by the friends and relatives of both the parties. It is
pertinent to note that the complainant belongs to a middle family and in order
to fulfill the desires of her husband his family members, the complainant and
her family members had spent a good amount on the marriage and also gave
expensive gifts like gold/silver to them and other family members. The
complainant and her family members had spent huge amount of lakhs on her
marriage along with other expensive gifts including but not limited to Diamond
ornaments, Gold ornaments, Silver ornaments, LED TV, Almirah, crockery, washing
machine, toaster, microwave set, dresses etc and the complainant and her family
members did their best to fulfil all the desires and demands of above named
persons, they were not satisfied with the marriage ceremonies and used to taunt
the complainant.
That since the first day of marriage, they taunted the
complainant that her parents have not performed the marriage function as per
the standards of her husband and his family members and also taunted her about
the cultural differences between the them and the complainant. Xxxx went on to
the extent of saying that he did not like the complainant and gave ill and
degrading comments about her and also told her that he married the complainant
only on the pretext of extorting dowry from her parents. Hearing all these
humiliating words and embarrassing remarks from her husband, her heart broke
and the complainant was shattered in dismay that her life has been ruined with
the feelings that nobody loves her in the matrimonial home. The Complainant
suppressed all such humiliation, which she was subjected to tolerate and hoped
that things would settle down in her matrimonial and that one day they would
start loving her.
Mr. Xxxx was not financially settled and I was trying to
support and settle him to start business. During this time have helped and
taken loans and also with my salary we were trying to run our house. During
this time I got to know that his family has taken bank loan and to help his
father we helped and starting paying loan installment and later when we cleared
the loan one portion of basement was transferred to us. But after sometime I
was advised to invest money in some plot somewhere in Punjab for which again I
was asked to give money and to support my family I helped and made DD of the
same. So in general I became a part to
maintain his social status and these incidents were delaying my focus on family
planning. Also it was impacting my heath. I was taking treatments but another
pressure was to work to run home.
I tried out treatment through surrogacy but were not getting
results during this time I got to know that he is codeine addicted and tried to
helped him and he had his mood swings and used to look for reasons to fight
till late at nights after he is drunk. He was under gone treatment from Xxxx hospital
for the same. I was trying to
emotionally support him but he looks for reason to fight. During this time Dr. Xxxx
from xxx helped us in his treatment I was blessed with baby boy through
surrogacy and as he was not financially settled have cleared most part of
hospital bills and was running family there was no support from his family
financially and emotionally. Hence xxxx had suggested to take help from her
mother. My son was at mom’s house for almost 30 days and after that we were
shifted to xxx for 2 months and later I
and my husband came back to Delhi. I was taking care of house hold expense
wherever needed and full basement rent was taken by Xxxx Singh to run house, but
after handling all this he still torture me for money and wants account of my
last 11 years. I have gone through many health treatments and still undergoing
the same and there is no mental and emotional support from him. I also feel
that he needs medical help / counseling as he often threatens me that if my son
will stay with me he will do something to himself. When my brothers went there
to meet him and tried to solve our matter he has put false litigations on both
my brothers xxx and xxx. On the night when I went to meet my son he had threatened
me that he will harm their children as well. My son is with him and I am really
worried as my 1 year 3 months old son is with him and he is not in right mind
stage. He is playing games and generally he is drunk at night and there is no
one to take care of son. If I go there he fights and put false allegations on
me and my family.
That the life of the complainant became miserable in her
matrimonial house. That it is also important to mention here that the Accused
caused lots of physical, mental torture and harassment to the complainant. Also
accused used to threaten the complainant that he would not leave the
complainant alive.
That the Accused used to taunt and humiliate complainant
on every occasions and whenever, complainant goes outside the house, Accused
levelled false allegation and complainant most humbly submits that, no one from
the family of them has ever tried to pacify and advise him about the right way
to lead the family.
That due to vile and abusive behavior of the Accused,
complainant had been subjected to mental cruelty / physically and
psychologically. That Accused refused to support the complainant and blamed her
and apart from physical cruelties, complainant has been subjected to different
types of cruelties which is more harmful then of physical cruelties and this
have destroyed the peace of mind and grievously hurt her mental feeling.
That the comprehensive appraisal of the entire matrimonial
life span of the complainant and the Accused clearly shows that the Accused is guilty
of treating the complainant with violence that is physically, mentally,
economically as well and that is to without any just and reasonable cause,
which has been unpardonable and unforgiveable and their wilful and
unjustifiable acts have inflicted severe harassment and agony to the
complainant and has forced the complainant to take the step of filing this
complaint against the Accused for their unbearable violence.
That
the Complainant was so mentally disturbed and encumbered by all the Accused
that many times she thought to commit suicide, but finding hope that the
Complainant used to pacify herself that these times of hardships will end soon
but to her bad fortune the Accused never showed their care and concern for the
Complainant and at all times inflicted atrocity and cruelty upon her.
That
due to the atrocities and cruelty committed upon Complainant and trying to come
out of the trauma suffered by her. The entire persona of the complainant has
been destroyed, who was very confident, smart and hardworking person. She
cannot depose confidence in anybody nor can trust anyone due to the ill
behavior constant demand of dowry and taunts for the same of the Accused meted
out on to the complainant and her family members.
That
due to the constant threats by all the accused the complainant got scared and
felt alarmed as the Accused is person of means and are capable of executing
their threats and the complainant is left with no other option but to approach
your goodself.
I
have not left with other remedy except to approach before your goodself to
kindly take appropriate actions against the accused. I reserve myright to make
additional statement about their conducts and details of other atrocities
committed by them as and when directed by your goodself. I have been forced to
file this complaint. It is therefore request that you may take appropriate
action against the aforesaid person.
It
is, therefore, requested to your good self to kindly take the appropriate
action against the aforesaid accused as per law and register FIR.
Your’s faithfully,
(xxxx)
W/o Sh. xxx,
R/o xxxx.
Mob. No. …………………